I've Never Been Good at Reading

“I’ve never been good at reading.”be?  If there is a math gene, then there must be
“I can’t help my kids at all with theira reading gene as well.  Perhaps there is, but if
reading homework.  Reading was always mythis reading gene does, in fact, exist parents do
worst subject.”not invoke or acknowledge its existence as readily
“Anything after middle school English, forget itand as proudly as the reason why little David may
– I’m terrible.”not be a good reader.  Not being a good reader
Have you ever heard a parent utter theseis unacceptable in our current educational system
statements?  Of course not, because to make aand in our society.  Reading is now infused
statement such as, “I’m not that good at“across the curriculum” as any American
reading,” is socially unacceptable among theteacher knows.  Schools have implemented
averagely educated, involved parents of schoolstrategies such as nightly homework reading
aged children in our society.  Which begs therequirements and the popular 100 book reading
question of, why then, is it socially acceptable tochallenge as ways to help students improve
make such statements about math?  Parents will,reading.   When it comes to reading actual
almost proudly, say things to me like  “I waspractice is the norm as to addressing reading
terrible at math so I’m not surprised that littleissues not the invocation of genetics.
David is having so much trouble with math.” As a high school math teacher, I have become
Further, not only is it acceptable to make such avery weary of hearing the myriad of excuses
statement, it is practically a badge of honor forthat parents and students alike make to explain
some parents when making such a claim.poor math performance.  As with reading, there
Would this same parent, proudly, say the sameare two main things that we as a society and we
thing to little David’s English or readingas a collective American educational system need
teacher, or so proudly wear their ignorance ofto adopt in order to address the math deficiencies
Reading like a badge of honor? Of course notof our students.  First, we need to change our
because it is not socially acceptable to “not bemindset about one’s ability to learn
good at” reading.  Why is this the case? mathematics.  Just as we believe with reading,
I’m not exactly sure but what I do know iswith math one becomes proficient through
that parents with school-aged children, who werepractice, time on task, the expectation of success
not raised and socialized in our American culture,and the belief that learning math is within
do not make such claims. Parents who wereeveryone’s grasp.  
socialized in Asian, Indian, Caribbean or AfricanThe math gene theory needs to be retired as our
cultures just to name a few do not make suchnational scapegoat regarding our children’s
claims about themselves or their children’sperformance in math.  We need to stop giving
lack of mathematics ability or aptitude.  This typeour kids permission to give up on a topic that can
of thinking in my experience is a uniquelybe learned and mastered with practice,
American phenomenon.  And the implication beingperseverance and the proper “can do”
in all of this is the assumption that a person ismindset.  Let’s support our kids with a
either inherently good at math, or not.  Either apositive attitude towards math and encourage
person has the illusive “math gene” or not.them to succeed in mathematics instead of
 making up excuses and being tacitly complicit in
So by extension does this mean there is atheir failure.
reading gene as well?  Why wouldn’t there